How to Write a Professional Email #8

Lesson #8: Do not schedule useless meetings

I guess this lesson isn't technically about email, but at work "outlook" is synonymous with "email" just like "research" is synonymous with "surfing the net until you get bored then using the first Google result." Since meeting requests pop up as email alerts and are sent in roughly the same way as an email, it's important to use the same care and consideration with them.

Since almost all meetings are totally useless, trite, and moot, you might think that you should never call them. Not so! Unlike emails which only result in more emails, meetings can have real world consequences.

Consider the following:
Your boss calls a meeting at noon on a Friday. Everybody has had a tough week and most people were planning on grabbing a three martini lunch over at Applebee's. To keep morale high, your boss decides to order pizza for everybody. Instead of scavenging the leftover pizza in the company kitchen when it's all cold and picked over you get free hot pizza! And there's some pepperoni left too!

Now that you know the true secret of why people call meetings, apply the same rules before calling your own by asking yourself the following questions:

• Can I get free food from my boss?
• Can I steal soda out of the conference room?
• Am I trying to avoid another meeting?
• Do I like free pizza and will this get me some?

If the answer is yes, call the meeting. If not, tell your boss everybody is really depressed and he should have a meeting about it at noon on Friday.

How to Write a Professional Email #7

Lesson #7 - ALL CAPS DOES NOT MEAN YOU'RE YELLING, IT MEANS YOU'RE ANNOYING

I thought this was about as obvious as the ending to a Disney movie, but here goes: do not ever write your email in ALL CAPS. Maybe you're excited that your daughter had a baby, maybe your house is on fire, or maybe you're really mad that somebody parked in the parking space you always use even though your company doesn't have reserved spaces. Whatever the reason, there is a handy key on your keyboard to deal with it -- and no, I don't mean Caps Lock. It's the exclamation point, and it is usually less annoying.

Exclamation points are relatively simple to use, and with practice you'll even be able to type them with one hand. Trust me, it's simpler than using chopsticks, discounting when you get frustrated and barbarically impale those crunchy water chestnuts. To type one, proceed as follows:

1. Place your left pinky on the shift key and leave it there.
2. If you have short little sausage fingers, proceed to step 5.
3. Rotate your wrist and press the "1" key with your left middle finger.
4. Proceed to step 6.
5. Press the "1" key with your right index finger.
6. Release the shift key.
7. Repeat from step 1 to add emphasis.

If you're wondering if you've overused it, take a listen as you type. Does it sound like your fingers are harmoniously playing a very small plastic drum set, or does it sound like a woodpecker? If the answer is a woodpecker you're typing too many "!" characters, and odds are there are sporadic "1" characters in there too.

Bonus Lesson: Ways to Add Emotion or Sound Without Pissing People Off

If you're not using a blackberry or iPhone, there are other handy substitutes which include the bold font, italics case, and underline. Each has a specific use, and can aid greatly in injecting emotion into your writing. See? I just did it. Twice.

• Bold - Makes a word louder or more pronounced.
• Italics - Adds snarkiness or sarcasm. Can also add feeling.
• Underline - Makes people pay attention to the word, as in "You may not pee in our pool." Sometimes people just don't get it.

Use restraint though and restrict these modifiers to one or two words. Otherwise you just look like you accidentally clicked on the button.

How to Write a Professional Email #6

With the availability of cheap digital cameras it's now easier than ever to fill up your computer with highly detailed photos of cats. Cheap hard disk drives and the ubiquitous nature of broadband internet connectivity have further distanced us from the idea that we can't amass enormous feline photo archives. So what do we do with all these pictures depicting a cat trying to open a doorknob, chasing a laser pointer, or clawing up somebody's leg? We email them of course! But herein lies the problem.

You'll really need to scale and crop your image appropriately or one of the following situations can occur:

• The message is rejected by the mail server because the attachment is too large.
• The person opens the image and sees a gigantic eyeball because your eleventy-billion-gigapixel camera takes images so detailed that your nose hairs can be counted even when you're not taking pictures of the inside of your nose.
• The camera managed to get a reflected image of you taking the picture, which you can only see when it's big (and you're naked)
• The recipient of the file is on a dial-up or cellphone connection and has to pay for minutes. Even though the cat in a paper bag is hilarious, they still get angry with you.
• IT decides to check what all your mail traffic is about and discovers that you've been having an affair with your boss.
• You fill up the Microsoft Exchange server with useless crap and cause the email system at work to go down.

In order to prevent any of the above from happening, scale your images first in a program like Paint .NET, Photoshop, or Paint Shop Pro before attaching them to the email. Most camera software even supports basic crop and resize features; you probably already have a program on your computer to do this.

The rule here is: keep attachments under 2 mb, or just start a flickr website like everybody else. If you need to email somebody a large picture resize it down and save it as a jpeg or png file. If they want to count your nose hairs, they'll ask for the high resolution file but it's safe to assume that they won't.

How to Write a Professional Email #5

A major pet peeve of mine is poor image quality in emails. I'm not just talking about images embedded in the body of an email, attachments and signatures are also quite frequently ugly. The four main faux pas of this topic are: poor resolution, over compression, format, and size.

Unless you work with images on a regular basis, you may not have developed the eye to spot common image problems. Unfortunately, if you're communicating with somebody who does care about appearances, your unintentional "image typo" could stick out like a sore thumb. Even though that simile is woefully out of date, take it from me: sore thumbs stick out a heck of a lot and really annoy people.

Over the next few blog posts, I'll cover the rules to live by regarding proper image inclusion in emails.

Let's start with poor resolution. There are "image grammar Nazis" who would argue with me about what resolution means, but in the common vernacular it generally refers to how detailed the image appears on the screen and in print. To begin thinking about resolution, you need to consider what the maximum resolution is of the media, meaning the screen, ink jet printout, or laser printer. The maximum resolution of the image never needs to exceed the resolution of the media, but it always needs to meet it to not appear "jaggy."

What does this mean in common terms? You can always scale an image down, but you can never scale it up. If you want the image to appear sharp on a printout, you need to start with an image at least 4 times as large as the size it appears in the email, and scale it down in the email program. When somebody prints it out, it will be sharp and clear rather and pixelated and jaggy. Oh and remember to hold shift and drag by the corners when you scale, I hate when images are smushed or stretched more than anything.

More on this later, I'm out of time for today.

How to Write a Professional Email #4

Lesson 4: The difference between CC and BCC

“CC” stands for carbon copy and “BCC” stands for blind carbon copy. What does this mean? I have no idea, people haven’t used carbon paper since Martin Van Buren was president and cigarettes didn’t cause cancer. All you really need to know is that they are the same, except for the “Blind” part which means that people on that list don’t see the email addresses of other people on that list.

The real trick is learning the proper time to show a list of all the recipients of an email, and when to keep it a secret. This skill is critical in both your personal and professional life; if you’ve ever been on somebody’s obnoxious joke list, you’ve probably already been a victim of this mistake.
As an aside, weekly joke lists absolutely suck if they are unsolicited. If you send one out, most people are too afraid of hurting your feelings to tell you to knock it off. Your stupid little “Recipe of the week” or “Cleaning Tip” is not appreciated if it is unsolicited. I don’t care how cute you think that picture of a cat is, how amazing the latest Nostradamus scam seems, or what the best way to clean a knob happens to be this week. These are just another form of chain-letter-junk-spam that annoys people.

Here’s an idea: Try not sending something next week; if you don’t get any emails asking something to the effect of “Why didn’t you send out a joke?” it’s a pretty good indication that nobody cares and that you should stop.

It’s time to step down from my soap box and see why that seeming digression was relevant. Since most of those lists copy everybody in the CC, if anybody hits “Reply to All” then everybody gets spammed. A snowball effect occurs as people get more and more annoyed. Eventually it always degenerates into swarms of messages containing a variant of “Stop sending &@#$&*$ emails!”

So what’s the rule here? If you have an announcement, newsletter, or joke that might be of interest to people who have no need to communicate with each other use BCC. Use CC when you are involved in a discussion with multiple people who are all interested, or when you explicitly want other people to be aware of who else is reading the email.

Think about it this way: the CC line is included in the email, and in forwards. You are basically including your mailing list in the email and allowing people to use it for whatever reason they choose. This doesn’t only correspond to the original email either, if it’s forwarded all those people’s names and addresses are forwarded too. You might end up on joke lists all over the country! Bad things like this can happen:

• We once used our landlord’s mailing list to coordinate and file official complaints about him. If he had used BCC we wouldn’t have known who all his tenants were. If you’re a slumlord, make sure you keep your serfs ignorant.
• In college somebody at the registrar’s office CC’ed the entire undergraduate class on a snow emergency notice. Whenever anybody got a virus after that it automatically got sent to everybody on campus. Even worse, people kept using it to solicit for plays, new websites, or ponzi schemes. I got more ads for Viagra than Sean Connery and I could practically paper my walls with Chinese penny stocks that “r about 2 exp!ode in pr1ce.”

I’m not sure why, but most email clients prioritize CC and make BCC hard to find, or disabled by default. It might take a little hunting around, some phone calls to India, or bothering that computer science nerd cousin, but eventually you’ll find it. Make good use of it.

Bonus Advanced Lesson

Let’s look at the following scenario. You’re sitting at work, minding your own business when your boss comes over and comments, “Hey, your butt looks awesome today!” While this would probably make your day, it’s obviously inappropriate. Consult the following chart to determine whether you should BCC, CC or email your boss directly:

How to Write a Professional Email #3

Lesson 3: The Proper Use of the "Send" feature

You may think this lesson is unnecessary; of course you know how to use the send feature! I would like to offer a dissenting opinion. It's sort of like chess, you know how all the pieces move but you certainly don't know how to "play." Most people know how to click on the "send" button, but how many people really know how to properly send an email? It really consists of three things:

1. Proper Email Composition (Covered in the other lessons)
2. Selection of recipient and proper data entry
3. Submission to the internet

Many people consider themselves finished when they have accomplished #1 and commit only one of their three brain cells to the completion of #2 and #3. Take heed! Many fatal mistakes occur during these last steps!

Not being careful about who you send email to can potentially lead to your immediate and involuntary loss of employment, downward spiral into substance abuse, and premature death. Not to mention the acid reflux, which will be enough to make Tums stock go up half a point. Let's examine the strange phenomenon of "misspelling an email address and getting mad when you don't get a reply."

It's pretty common for somebody to tell you their email address incorrectly on the phone, misspell it in a BlackBerry text message, or intentionally give you the wrong one when you ask them on a date. Regardless of why it occurs, it's really your responsibility to get your message to them, not theirs. Always make sure you get two pieces of contact information if you require a relationship with that person. But that's not really the issue here is it?

The problem is when you know perfectly well what their email address is, and by not carefully rereading it before clicking send, you send it to the wrong person (or to nobody at all). Subsequently, once a reasonable amount of time goes by, say 3 days for business emails or 5 minutes for the person you're stalking, you send this angry message to the correct address:

"Hey, I really needed a reply to my message from yesterday. Why do you always take so long? Is it too much to ask for one simple email reply? What's your problem? Do you want to take this outside? You always were such a jerk!"

Not only will the person have no idea what you are talking about, they will also get upset and probably kick your butt in the parking lot. Always check the "sent" folder and make sure the email address was correct in the email that was never received. You have no reason to get mad unless they really didn't respond! Also, you could try sending emails with a return receipt request, although that usually annoys the person on the receiving end.

A certain dishonest behavior deserves honorable mention here, the sneaky pretend misspelling. "Oh you didn't get my email? I must have spelled the address wrong. Let me resend it." You know what I'm talking about. It's just like "Oh you didn't get my term paper that I had all semester to work on but supposedly turned in at the last possible minute? Let me give it to you now with the understanding that I turned it in on time, even though it's two weeks later and I never followed up with you to make sure you got it. Please ignore the file date that says I finished it at 2 am last night." People are stupid, but not that stupid. I would wager that every time somebody claims "The internet ate my email," they are full of crap. Admitting that you forgot to send it and apologizing is always better then trying to outsmart somebody, who knows better anyway.

How to Write a Professional Email #2

Lesson 2: Not thinking in an email body

Even if you’re writing a thesis on the spontaneous generation of leptons in a small sample of gallium arsenide without the use of a cyclic particle accelerator, if you put the word “um…” somewhere in the email body I’m going to think you’re an idiot.

It really doesn’t matter whether your email is coming from “@princeton.edu.” If you can’t do me the courtesy of rereading your email before sending it, why should I read it? I know in today’s minute to minute text messaging twittering everybody-has-a-blackberry-or-iphone world people suddenly think that they can’t take more than thirty seconds to compose an email, but c’mon. Is this acceptable?

“I wanted to umm… send you some information and … … maybe this will help… I … uhhh.. attached some file which you might find useful.”

Honestly, I’ve gotten real emails like this. I couldn’t care less how long it took you to think about the sentence you wrote. You telling me that you spent substantial time on something like this doesn’t help your case. By using multiple ellipses it seems more like you’re trying to excuse how terrible it is, rather than make it right.

I know that people of the current generation, myself included, have been taught that “It doesn’t matter how good it is as long as you tried.” All that has done is cause people to try and show all their effort rather than concentrate on results.

What’s the bottom line here? Don’t do it.

How to Write a Professional Email #1

The last person you would ever want giving you advice on writing is an engineer. Luckily for you, I've switched to Marketing. There are a few common practices that can really help make you seem like less of an idiot when you email your coworkers. If you learned to write by sending text messages, blogging, or using Twitter than you're probably guilty of more than a few of these:

• Not capitalizing "i" when using it to refer to yourself.
• Thinking inside the email body by including ellipses or "Um."
• Misspelling an email address and getting mad when you don't get a reply.
• Copying the wrong person in a reply.
• Using CC (Carbon Copy) instead of BCC (Blind Carbon Copy).
• Sending useless reminders or scheduling meetings nobody will attend.
• Forgetting an attachment or attaching the wrong type of file.
• Including an image which looks horrible.
• Using a font nobody else has.
• Having a bad email signature.
• Not being concise enough.
• Writing about writing.

There are endless blogs and guides on writing and common grammatical errors. It would be redundant to repeat those here, we all have Google. What we don't all have is common sense; this series will focus on those mistakes which are most common but which are not grammatical in nature.

You don't need to write as if you got your English Degree from Harvard for people to think you are intelligent, but you sure don't want to write as if you got your GED from Riker's Island. Generally in business people won't notice small grammatical errors like changing tense, comma faults, or disagreeing pronouns. My formal writing training ended when I graduated college, but it doesn't take a genius to write a letter; emails should be no different.

Lesson 1: Not capitalizing "i" and spelling phonetically



Nothing makes me angrier than when I see a sentence like "what r u doin?" or "i h8 u." This kind of short hand might come in handy when you're giving instructions to your CounterStrike team, in the middle of an intense World of Warcraft raid, or trying to type while eating a sandwich but it has no place in a professional email. Is it that hard to hit the shift key? If you don't take the time to thoughtfully compose emails I can only assume that you don't have anything useful to say. It's not like you're paying for bandwidth anymore, don't be stingy with letters.

I can understand the need to use this type of language in text messages. At ten cents a pop, they are exceedingly expensive. Making the most of that character limit can save you some serious coin, at the expense of your dignity. Emails do not suffer the same restrictions.

The rule here is, when writing a professional email never use shorthand. Unless you're on the mailing list for the society of court stenographers, the recipient will thank you for your completeness. Also, always capitalize the letter "i" when referring to yourself.

If you send me your resume attached to an email that looks like it came from a 13 year old, it's going in the garbage. Your Ph. D. from the University of Phoenix Online won't mean squat and neither will your managerial experience from McDonalds. If you can't take the time to write it, I can't take the time to read it.

Started a book on Monday, January 19th

Before I die, I feel like I will have to try out every kind of job at least once. I have already tried Retail Yarn Sales, Website Design, Quality Assurance, Embedded Systems Programming, Web Application Development, Software Training, Marketing Communications, Graphic Design, and Solar Panel Manufacturing. Considering the ground covered so far, surely I will be an astronaut by 30, President by 45, and Former President by 46.

During my current, involuntary "Unpaid Leave of Absence," I've decided to write a book. Luckily for me, the state of New Jersey is allowing me to collect unemployment insurance while I write, apply for other jobs, and mope around the house. Although it's not much, it sure helps.

If I become a successful author, I intend to redirect all the funds I have collected from unemployment to a deserving charity like Doctors without Borders, NJPAL or Obama '12. I have realistic expectations of how well a book can sell, but my idea has never been done before (according to Amazon) and should appeal in the current financial environment. I can't say what the idea is yet, but it's a doozy. This could all even out Karmically, however I sure hope I end up with a million dollars that isn't invested in a 401K.

My experience packing books for a publishing company has taught me, if nothing else, that books are really really heavy. I don't want to ever have to schlep them around again, so I will definitely not try to self publish. Being the son of an author with thirty years of experience leads me to believe that I can succeed in this endeavor. When I'm the next J.K. Rowling and you look back on this blog, you'll see just how right I was; or you'll never read this blog. Either way, you can't prove me wrong!

As of today I'm at just about 28,000 words and 108 pages of manuscript. Can't wait to finish!